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([personal profile] unicornduke Apr. 5th, 2026 08:07 am)
I got the complicated drywall piece cut and carried it upstairs, so pleased with myself on doing a good job. It fit in well! And then I realized that I must have bought a different thickness drywall when I did the lower piece, so the upper piece of drywall is 3/8" thick and the lower piece is 1/4" thick and visibly different. I'm debating on what to do. I could go buy another piece of drywall but that's incredibly wasteful. I could try and piece together bits of other drywall and make it different. Or just use spackle and smooth between the pieces. Probably no one will notice it. Or put a piece of trim across that spot. 

I'm still thinking about it. 

My neck issue no longer is in my neck which is nice, I can turn my head properly all the time now. It has moved down into my shoulder which is less nice. It's not an issue for work but it does hurt a bit to sleep on that side now. 

I spent a lot of the last few days pruning blueberries, down to three rows left which is great progress. Before they left, my dad and I were supposed to spread straw (we're putting a light layer down on the ones we didn't get covered in the winter so the berries can rest on something) but he was tired that night, so we delayed it and then it rained an inch overnight. And then I discovered the donkey cart tire had gone completely flat. So that sat until yesterday, when I asked the neighbor if he could drive the tractor. He helps out with tractor work when he's got time, so I was flexible with time and day and he was able to help. I pumped up the donkey cart tire enough to get through the spreading and brought it back. I had to get the straw spread because I couldn't unhook the donkey cart with it loaded and I needed the tractor for other things, so getting it done was super important. 

Yesterday, I spread fertilizer on the strawberries and raspberries and granular herbicide on the raspberries and blueberries. These both needed to get applied before it rained again. We are getting the hang of the web based farm management system that we decided to use and it's working decently. FarmOS is an open source farm management software. Right now we are paying ($75 per year) for them to host the webserver while we get all the logistics worked out but we plan to host our own at some point since dad knows all that stuff and we can make edits to systems that we want to change. I can use it on my phone which is so so so valuable. 

I ate something Thursday which super upset my stomach, so it was good it rained and I took that day off except for getting some sidejob work done. Took a nap. Had a headache too. But it went away overnight, so no idea what that was about. My stomach has been sensitive lately, not really sure why since I am eating the same stuff as always. 

My aunt, uncle, cousin and her husband were in town and borrowed the garage at the fun house for working on their car brakes since it has a concrete floor and is mostly empty. I wandered through to chat with them since my parents are out of town and they invited me down for dinner last night. I went down and they fed me delicious food and made gluten free peanut butter cookies and I got to pet so many dogs. They have a dog problem (as in they've adopted too many, my cousin worked at a rescue for a while) but they're working on it. My cousin is pregnant and honestly doesn't sound thrilled about it, but it's hard to tell. She's always been no kids but her sister had a kid two years ago and they seem to get on well, so many that's why she decided it was fine? But it also sounded like it wasn't planned. So I don't know! I suspect she might not have been feeling well too and was a little cranky. But dogs, there was...eight dogs in the house, three of them great danes. One tiny sausage dog that hid the entire time. The great danes were very well behaved. I got many dog snuggles and my cousin asked if I wanted one of the great danes, who she is fostering. She's a sweet, well behaved dog. Solid maybe, my parents need to move out first. 

My dad's surgery apparently went well, I heard there was some painkiller high texting. I believe he's got a followup monday, so my parents won't be back yet. I gotta say, it's nice having a quiet, empty house for now. I think that's the thing that bugs me, not that they talk to me, but that they're constantly around. Constantly. And napping in the living room a ton which means I can't do loud things. 

I am taking today off work since it has started raining. I need to get the peppers started but that's easy. Technically there is a family dinner this afternoon for easter but I didn't actually get a invite text to it and I think I'm going to skip it anyway with that as an excuse if anyone asks. I probably should go. Hmm. I could hand off the blanket to my aunt if I did that. I'll think about it. I should also bake food. Augh. Why do I need to eat food so much. 

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([personal profile] oursin Apr. 5th, 2026 12:35 pm)
Happy birthday, [personal profile] shiv!
A bit of a catch-up on two things I watched recently through National Theatre at Home:

Good (directed by Dominic Cooke) is a 2022 production of the 1981 play by Cecil Philip Taylor, about a professor in pre-war Germany whose decisions take him from a life as a progressive academic and family man whose closest friend is Jewish to an active contributor to the Final Solution.

The production stars David Tennant as protagonist John Halder, with Sharon Small and Elliot Levey playing virtually all other characters. I don't know if that's the norm for this play, but having the people around Halder share faces was extremely effective in bringing home the self-centeredness that guides his actions and the way he conceives of people in his life by the role they play in his conception of himself. Tennant, Small, and Levey all turn in fantastic performances, but Levey in particular just knocked it out of the park, especially in a scene near the end that differs slightly from the original play in a way that hit even harder for me. This was really something special.



The Estate (directed by Daniel Raggett) is the debut play from Shaan Sahota, starring Adeel Akhtar as MP Angad Singh—the unexpected frontrunner for party leadership on platform of change—whose image of himself as the underdog progressive son of a working class father is put to the test when his father dies, leaving a significant estate to him with nothing going to his older sisters on the basis of sex.

There was some unevenness across the performances, a key moment at the climax kind of wobbled for me, and I personally think the political elements would have worked a lot better if this had maybe been set in the 2010s (because specifically name-checking it as 2025 just drove home the ways it doesn't resemble the political climate of the moment), but it was firing on all cylinders when it came to the family drama, the poison of unexamined privilege and unspoken trauma, and the pressure to keep conflicts in marginalized communities out of the public eye even if it means demanding more sacrifices from the more vulnerable members of that community. Adeel Akhtar's performance was incredibly impressive given all of the ugly and painful things that come out of Angad over the course of the play, and Thusitha Jayasundera (playing Angad's eldest sister, Gyan) was an immediate "Oh, I need to see more of what she's been in." Also, the staging and music were great and made me really wish I'd been able to see this one in person.

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([personal profile] case posting in [community profile] fandomsecrets Apr. 4th, 2026 05:57 pm)
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Today's poem:

After After
by Kristi Maxwell

This was after we moved into pencil drawings of tree houses on stilts, but before the cows grazed in the diminishing field of the freckle signifying our face.

This was after a refusal of berries too close to rotting, but before self-consciousness about metaphor.

This was after the butter-soaked collard greens, but before we deflated the ache as if it were something reusable and easily stowed.

This was after the pimple you mistook for jam and, obviously, failed to wipe off, but before the last comma, which we obstinately misplaced.

This was after the bite mark, but before the tongue.

This was after the nosegay protecting the nose from the plague-stench, but before the video of the autopsy of the woman with a bra and panties matching your own.

This was after lushness, but before lushness.

This was after the ghosts caught fire and after their flimsy collage of light, but before the building conceived space and before the hard labor and before the dead men.

This was after the green shoe busted and the wool shoe, but before the description of a bus-struck owl.

This was after we knew, but long before saying.

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([personal profile] petra Apr. 4th, 2026 02:55 pm)
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([personal profile] pennswoods Apr. 4th, 2026 02:47 pm)
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([personal profile] hunningham Apr. 4th, 2026 07:27 pm)
Last year, my father-in-law's eyesight went phooey and he was no longer an old man living very happily on his own in a house full of books, but an old man who couldn't see anything, couldn't read, couldn't cope. He's going to move into a flat down the road, but this is very much a work-in-progress.

This week he's staying with my in-laws (to give me a break), so we decided that this was a good time to deal with some of the books. Father-in-law was an avid reader, a collector and a lover of 2nd-hand bookshops. There were a lot of books. He's taken a small selection to keep, and asked us to depose of the rest.

An antiquarian bookseller from Chorley has taken a lot of them, and some have been sold to specialist dealers. The rest will go to Oxfam, but Oxfam do not want all the books all at once (limited storage space), so I am to store them in my attic and take a bag a week into the local Oxfam over the next 3 - 4 months.

So I spent Thursday clearing up and organising my attic. And then going to storage unit with brother-in-law, and unpacking crates, and finding boxes of books, and transporting boxes of books, and carrying boxes of books upstairs to the flat. The boxes are too heavy to carry up the ladder into the attic, so I had to unpack, haul books up the ladder in ikea bags, repack into boxes in the attic. (Brother-in-law gone home by this stage). About halfway through, I worked out that once a box was two-thirds empty I could lift it up on top of my head, balance it there with one hand and get it up the ladder that way. That helped.

Oddly satisfying day. Physical work, lifting things and moving things, which I just don't do very much. I ended the day in a very good mood.

(I also found that the attic has an infestation of carpet moths which may require professional aid. I carried a lot of carpet remnants & two chewed-up rugs down the ladder and out to the yard. I need to make a trip to the town dump sometime very soon.)
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([personal profile] selenak Apr. 4th, 2026 06:38 pm)
Mind you, the non-fannish world feels like one long Good Friday for humanity these days, but still: time to share the annual joy of our Franconian Easter Wells. (And bridges.)

Brücke Drosendorf

Segnungsei


Lots more eggs and wells beneath the cut )
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([personal profile] oursin Apr. 4th, 2026 05:04 pm)

It's like the fact that anyone has studied it just gets erased from the record?

24 scientists contribute a preprint on Neuroanatomy of the clitoris:

The clitoris is one of the least studied organs of the human body. The detailed anatomy of the clitoris is challenging to address through a gross dissection, as most of its parts are embedded internally, surrounded by pubic bone and several pelvic organs.

Helen O'Connell and colleagues, 2005, Anatomy of the Clitoris?

O'Connell does feature in the citations, I see. Along with various other scientists who boldly went where no man....

Because one does rather want to enquire 'Least studied BY WHOM???'

Take it away, Lil Johnson:


I feel that this is sort-of related: Founder of ‘orgasmic meditation’ company gets nine years in prison in forced labor conspiracy" - a bit more on What the Hell is Orgasmic Meditation: What to know about the controversial practice of ‘orgasmic meditation’:

“One rule of thumb when exploring sex-positive spaces might be to ask: ‘Is someone getting rich from this?’” says Dr Anouchka Grose, a writer and psychoanalyst in London. “If the answer is yes, there’s a distinct possibility that money is more important to the organizer than your wellbeing.”

Or any spaces, really.



Click on my Ruth Chew tag to see what sort of books she's known for: small-scale children's fantasies focusing on magic-infused everyday objects and creatures in Brooklyn. This is her hard-to-find first book, which is not a fantasy.

The main characters are a brother and sister who were left, along with their never-seen younger brother and sister, in the care of their grandmother who feeds them canned tomatoes - yuck! They leave a note saying they're doing a long sleepover at a friend's house, then run away to the site where they often went camping, buy a cheap boat, and live on an island.

This is entertaining enough on its own, but mostly of interest because it shows how she course-corrected in her fantasy books: the flaws in this book are corrected, and she melds its strengths (likable kid characters, a focus on the practicalities and small details of both the human and natural worlds, a friendly old woman) with excellent small-scale magic. In all the rest of her books, there are just two kids - no unnecessary and off-page younger siblings. There are no mean kids or bullying (this book has two mean bullies who just drop out of the story). The parents are around but the kids' adventures take place out of sight, so there's no implausible runaway plots. And the old ladies are witches, which makes them even better!
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([personal profile] selenak Apr. 4th, 2026 04:14 pm)
In which Boyd becomes even more my favourite among the new characters, Kelly gets herself a mission, and Ed.... but that would be telling.

Spoilers are on the case )
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